NEVER AGAIN.

                      


Have you ever imagined how the world would have been without friends and people around you to share and express your feelings!
Friends and Family members gives us that sense of confidence in ourselves and also feel so secured with this close ties.Happy relationships makes us proud as we have our close confidants always by our sides.In most cases heathy relationships enables us to overcome challenges in life.
All over the world many students in the universities engage in serious,healthy and productive relationships.
But there are also campus relationships which are toxic where you find students engaging in love matters recklessly and the end results being emotionally or even physically damaged by the other person without knowing. Anyone can be in a toxic relationship regardless of gender,race,sexuality and any other factor. Toxic relationships are unfortunately prevalent in the society and university is no exception.Its therefore important that that we are fully aware of the warning signs and what to xo if we realise we are in one. 

 WARNING SIGNS OF A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP.
*They put you down in front of others.(Hakutambui mkiwa kwa mbogi anakulenga hataki stori yako.) *Cheating is clearly evidence in your relationship.There is that spirit of mistrust.
 *They are ultra competitive with you and don'support your successes.
 * Many times your friends and family members have expressed concern about your relationship my friend watch out wanaona hiyo urafiki haikufai you deserve better. 
* You don't feel positive about the future.You don't see you marrying each other at the end of it all.
* You are physically harmed or threatened. 
* Always feeling guilt and sorry but you dont know why. 

 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO AVOID TOXIC RELATIONSHIP IN CAMPUS 
* Be happy in your own company; Don't rush take time and choose wisely. 
* Make a list of deal "breakers",This are essential qualities any new partner or friend must posses.
 * Only continue dating someone or aa new partner if you can fully be yourself while with them. 
* Choose a partner you can trust. *Choose a a friend or partner who involves you in the rest of their life. 
* To seal the deal choose a partner who openly discuss your future as a couple. 
The next time you are choosing a live long love life partner be wise enough.
REFERENCES 
 1.pickardproperties.co.uk 2.humansofuniversity.com 3.hercampus.com

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